Cats have their own ways of communicating with other cats and with us humans. Cats are not small dogs! This article covers the basics in feline communication using ears, eyes, and tails.
Ears: Kitties have their ears forward when they are interested and happy.
Their ears rotate back for a few seconds when listening to birds or other sounds.
When your cat’s ears are turned back, beware, this cat is getting annoyed. Stop what you are doing at this point because your cat is already telling you that they are getting angry.
Flat ears on a cat indicate fear.
Eyes: Narrowed pupils can indicate that your cat is agitated or angry. Wide dilated pupils can indicate excitement or fear.
Staring can indicate affection but again refer to your cat’s body position, ear, and tail to see the whole picture. Cats may stare someone down who they think is below them, this is a sign of aggression. If you have a new cat in the house that is starting you down, don’t get into a staring contest with them as this will make your new cat feel threatened. Simply blink and look away.
Slow Blinks are a way to communicate cat to cat, or cat to human, affection. The cat will often blink and then look away showing that they trust you. To better communicate with your cat, simply blink at your cat slowly when they are relaxed and see if they do the same.
Tails:
Tails that are straight up in the air indicate confidence and contentment. This cat is happy in her environment and friendly. Don’t be surprised if this kitty then rubs against you too!
A tail pointed downwards can meet that the cat is aggressive.
If your cat is holding their tail under their body, they may be afraid or submissive. Make sure they aren’t being bullied by another cat.
Tail flicks mean that your cat is getting agitated. This is a good time to stop whatever you are doing before the cat has to use more drastic means to communicate such biting or scratching.
A swishing tail means that your cat is interested in an object such as a bird at the window or a toy. Be ready for the pounce!
A puffed up tail indicates a scared cat that is trying to stay safe by looking bigger.
Cuddling cats may wrap their tails around each other in a sign of affection.
